The last emotion Selwyn looks at is shame.

He writes that shame is a ‘feeling of humiliation excited by consciousness of one’s own guilt or shortcoming, a state of disgrace, a regret or ignominy’. He also mentions that guilt is a feeling of having done something wrong and is different to shame.

I think the feeling of shame has more to do with one’s perception of their social standing, it’s a feeling of loss. I like the expression that is often heard in Asian countries, a ‘loss of face’ – because this expression carries with it, the feeling that there has been a loss regarding one’s social prestige. The person does not want to show their face in public.

Consequently, I think there are two areas where the emotion of shame arises; one, is where we feel shame within our own social environment – the outcomes could be humiliation and some loss of our self-esteem. The second and more important expression of this emotion is the feeling of shame where we realise we are not following God’s ways; here the outcome can be more than the ‘loss of face’, it can be the loss of life!

Comments are closed.